“You know one of the great gifts of grief (a misnomer if ever there was one I know) is that it can make you “fearless”. It can make you more courageous than you ever believed possible because you have faced the unthinkable, the unspeakable, the unbearable. You can do absolutely anything now, if it’s what you desire.
So as we approach Christmas and the end of this year, begin to think about what are you going to do that you’ve been putting off. What gift is grief going to give you this year or the next?”